Demystify Culture

Demystify Culture

Share this post

Demystify Culture
Demystify Culture
Control Less, Trust More
Copy link
Facebook
Email
Notes
More

Control Less, Trust More

Freedom is the only worthy goal in life

Gustavo Razzetti's avatar
Gustavo Razzetti
Mar 19, 2019
∙ Paid

Share this post

Demystify Culture
Demystify Culture
Control Less, Trust More
Copy link
Facebook
Email
Notes
More
Share

Freedom is the only worthy goal in life

Photo by MILKOVÍ on Unsplash

“The closest thing to being in control we’ll ever be is in that moment when we realize we’re not.” — Brian Kessler

Not everything that matters can be controlled, and not everything that can be controlled matters.

That’s the paradox with life: we want things our way, yet, most of the times, things take on a life of their own. What if we stop trying to control everything? And start trusting our ability to adapt?

Letting go of control doesn’t mean not caring. But keeping our minds and hearts open — to make room for the unexpected.

As Shakespeare wrote, “Come what come may. Time and the hour runs through the roughest day. One way or another, what’s going to happen is going to happen.”

The illusion of safety

Human beings crave for structure — we fear things can easily fall apart.

That’s why most people love routines. They provide a familiar order to our daily lives. When everything happens within specific rules and parameters, we …

Keep reading with a 7-day free trial

Subscribe to Demystify Culture to keep reading this post and get 7 days of free access to the full post archives.

Already a paid subscriber? Sign in
© 2025 Gustavo Razzetti
Privacy ∙ Terms ∙ Collection notice
Start writingGet the app
Substack is the home for great culture

Share

Copy link
Facebook
Email
Notes
More