Overthinking Won't Make You Smarter – Your Shot of Fearless Culture #383
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As some of you may know, I love to cook. It's not a hobby but something I'm really passionate about—from big planned meals to everyday stuff. I always like to play around.
One of the things I usually do is, once I'm almost done, I step back and see what the dish is missing. But rather than thinking about it, I look for inspiration. Maybe opening the fridge or checking my extensive spice rack.
Often, something triggers my instincts, and I find that magic touch that turns a good recipe into a great one.
That's exactly what happened to me with my book. I woke up on Monday, looked at my manuscript (version 4 already), and sensed that something was missing, but I couldn't tell what. This time, I didn't browse my spice rack but instead decided to ask for feedback. Not as you'd expect—sharing my book and getting input—but actually looking for stories.
So I decided to invite people to share the conversations they regret—the ones that didn't happen or went bad.
Whether at work or in personal relationships, we all have unfinished conversations that we keep having with ourselves but not with the right people.
That's the topic of this week's newsletter: self-awareness doesn't happen alone. While reflection (when well done) is crucial, so is asking for feedback so people can highlight what we miss.
I hope you join me and help me reach 10,000 stories.
Here's the link if you want to share yours or look at the conversations others regret: forwardtalk.co
Because overthinking won't make our dishes—or ideas—better. Sometimes, we need to look in other places. The real magic doesn't happen inside our head but outside of it.
Explore this week's newsletter:
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An exercise to reflect on your thinking process
Resources to increase self-awareness
Stay fearless, my friend.
Gustavo
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Well said and spot-on; thank you!
I agree with your premise. Sometimes less is more.