The Incompetent Heart: Why People Love to Hate You

We see others as enemies, not people

We see others as enemies, not people.

We are wired to see others as enemies, not people— Pic by Henry Hustava

“From the deepest desires often come the deadliest hate.”

— Socrates

The news roller coaster is hurting me.

My emotions are up and down — the wild ride is anything but fun.

Politicians are supposed to commit their best efforts for the public good, not to be fighting against each other. Books are meant to inspire readers, not to sink someone. Similarly, book reviews should help us understand what’s in it for us, not encouraging we bash the author.

We must call out lousy conduct from leaders, not play their game. By taking sides, we are not just legitimizing attacks and divisive behaviors; we are also fueling hate.

The worst part is not that hating others is normal; it has become socially accepted too.

I’m not taking a moral stand here. I’m far from being perfect. This post is a personal reflection — I’m inviting you to join me.

On the social media stage, looking right seems the only thin…